Dilemma

Weddings are a part of summer, and three invites have arrived already. One is for the girl at work, the second is my friend whom was the first person I met and became friends with when I moved here nearly 7 years ago, and the third is for my very good friend that I hang out with most days.

All three weddings are on the same day, August 14th.

So now I am faced with this dilemma (not that I will lose sleep over it). I know that I have time for the dust to settle and things will work out by then. Looking at the situation, I have weighed my options...

A. The girl at work I have known for the least amount of time, but working together everyday I am faced with Bridezilla stories and the same question of, 'You're coming, right?!' Ditching out when the entire office will be there weighs my conscience a little, but I will likely make this my last option due to the length of time we've known each other.

B. My friend #2, I met her in September of 2003. We used to party like rock stars and even had our babies 6 weeks apart. She secretly got married while pregnant to make it legit, and is now having the big show to make the dream a reality, so to speak. I was pretty pumped for this one until I realized the date of Bachelorette #3's nuptuals...

C. She and I are tight. We click, hang out on a regular basis. I even went dress shopping with her to find 'the dress'. This weekend I am helping her pick bridesmaid dresses, because her attendants live in Kamloops and Hawaii. Should be a good party!

So even still, how do I let #2 down if I only go to #3? Do I juggle two in one day somehow-- perhaps one ceremony and the other's reception? Maybe I could go to #1's stagette and just get a gift? Ugh.

Maybe I will have a family reunion that weekend.