On Saturday night I went out for a Stagette for one of the four weddings that I was invited to on the 14th. I will not be attending this particular wedding ( I will be doing 2 of the 4 though) so I figured I should make the appearance to balance it all out. The party started at 6:00, and Hudson stayed out at the lake with his Dad so that I could have a worry-free good time. I really looked forward to it. A good excuse to go out with the girls, get dressed up, and shake my bootie. It has been a long time since I had been out for a night on the town.
So I get to this party and was having a great time playing games, having drinks and I consumed a large quantity of jello shooters. WOo HOo! At 10:30, the Hummer limo comes to pick us up and begin a night of clubbing. We get to the first place, and that's when it all changed for me. Don't get me wrong here, the girls that I was with were a lot of fun-- but I think this old hen is done with the bar scene. Drinks are overpriced and there are too many 18 year olds sharing my space.
A 3am bedtime is ridiculous, especially when your new found sleep in time is 8am.
Here I sound like naggy old bitch, but I would much rather have a girls night at a lounge dressed up and sipping on cocktails, sharing some appies while consumed in great conversation. Even better, a night in at a friends place playing games and a BBQ with the family.
At what point did I stand back only to judge and rather wish that I was out at the lake sitting around the fire with friends and my little family? Is it because I am nearly 35? Is it because I now have different priorities?
I used to be a ring leader in the party scene. Now? Not so much. Good thing I have another one to go to on Wednesday...
Hey it's just the natural progression of life. It'd be more concerning if you still wanted to go all out and be the party-party girl. It's a GOOD thing that you feel this way - and even better that you recognize it instead of trying to fight it like some of the people that I know... because that's not pretty.
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here here Tarable! I concur... Jen its a good thing... lounging is more relaxing and fun...it is because you are nearly 35, but hey, do you want to be 18 again! NOT. So enjoy, don't question. Its really all good
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